My father inlaw, Tony Iwanow passed away last week after a fabulous 81 year adventure. You couldn't have asked for a better husband, father, grandffather or friend.At the memorial service I was thinking that he was probably up there looking down on us feeling thankful for all of the family and friends that had gathered to celebrate his life, but more importantly I thought he was probably looking down at the casket and thinking..... What a waste of money. He probably had some old used plywood, rusty hinges and handles in his back yard that he could have made a perfectly good box with. He was a master of collecting and recycling.
I'm gonna miss him alot.
I'm gonna miss the family get togethers where I'd have a few beers with him and he'd tell me the same stories about the old days over and over again, totally oblivious to the fact that I could mouth the words along with him cause he had told me the stories so many times.
I'm gonna miss his incredible sense of fashion. He had a real flair for mixing and matching pieces of wardrobe. He would wear a grease stained baseball hat with an old frayed leisure suit, a loud shirt with a mismatching tie, running shoes and he'd top it all off by slinging his wife Lidia's purse over his shoulder. He had his own SPECIAL style.
I'm gonna miss his values. Tony didn't care about stuff, he cared about people and I learned alot from him about that.
I think the greatest gift you can give is the gift of life and I'd like to thank Tony and Lidia for two of the greatest gifts I have received in my life, my wife Vera and her brother (my best friend) Al.
Tony would want us to know that he is at peace and in a good place.
To Tony I would like to say, it's an honour to be your son inlaw, I love you and I miss you.
CHEERS

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Hey Andy, sorry for your families loss!! My condolences to your wife.
Dearest Andy...boy you're good! I loved what you all said at the memorial. It was truly beautiful with so much light and humour - the way he would have wanted. What a beautiful memorial... Dyday Tolya (aka Tony) will be missed by soooooooo many and it is because he was loved so deeply. He was truly such a kind, loving and gentle soul. I think each and every one of us has incredible stories to share as to how he touched and blessed our lives... but my thoughts and prayers are with you that were the most closest to him. First and foremost, the love of his life, Tetya Lylia, his children Al (okay aka Stretch) and Vera, you Andy and Sue and of course all of your children... how he loved you all d his grandchildren....and how he talked about you all. The Russian way.. never so you could hear but somehow everyone else did... A true and kind gentle soul and he will be dearly dearly missed. With Love & Light ... Natasha S
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